<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
     xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
     xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
     xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
     xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
     xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss"
     xmlns:geo="http://www.w3.org/2003/01/geo/wgs84_pos#"
     xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/">
    <channel>
        <title><![CDATA[Erika Jayne Details How She Pre-Planned Split, Left Tom Without Telling Him]]></title>
        <atom:link href="https://usagag.com/2021/06/23/erika-jayne-details-how-she-pre-planned-split-left-tom-without-telling-him/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
        <link>https://usagag.com/2021/06/23/erika-jayne-details-how-she-pre-planned-split-left-tom-without-telling-him/</link>
        <lastBuildDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2021 09:34:31 +0000</lastBuildDate>
        <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
        <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
        <generator>https://usagag.com</generator>
        <media:content url="/uploads/2021/06/24/erika-jayne-details-how-she-pre-planned-split-left-tom-without-telling-him.jpg" medium="image">
            <media:title type="html">Erika Jayne Details How She Pre-Planned Split, Left Tom Without Telling Him</media:title>
        </media:content>
        <content:encoded><![CDATA[
										
					<p>For the first time since filing for divorce in November 2020, <strong><strong>Erika Jayne</strong></strong> is giving new insight into her marriage to and subsequent split from<strong><strong> Tom Girardi</strong></strong> on <em>The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills</em>.</p>
<p>“Let’s discuss the elephant in the room,” the 49-year-old reality star told costars <strong><strong>Lisa Rinna, Kyle Richards, Dorit Kemsley, Garcelle Beauvais, Sutton Stracke, Crystal Minkoff </strong></strong>and<strong><strong> Kathy Hilton </strong></strong>on the Wednesday, June 23, episode of the Bravo show. “My life drastically changed this week. I let go of my Lamborghini, I let go of my 16,000 square foot home, I let go of my marriage, I let go of everything. I literally made a decision that I had to.”</p>
<p>In a confessional, Erika further explained, “I left because he pushed me further and further out. The conversations that I used to have were now reduced down to a sentence or two. I just kept walking around that house and knowing that this marriage was headed down a really s—ty path. I had to make a choice to do what was right for me. I couldn’t live that way anymore.”</p>
<p>Erika, <strong>who admitted that she filed for divorce on Election Day to try to bury the story</strong>, told her castmates that she kept them in the dark on purpose.</p>
<p>“It would put you in a bad position to give you information that you had to hold,” she said. “It also doesn’t serve me to talk a lot about what is happening legally — or will happen legally — because I am married to somebody who is very good in that area. …  I thought about this and tried and tried and tried to talk and tried to work it out and I was met with such resistance. Such resistance. I can’t do this by myself. I can’t convince someone of anything and so I said, ‘OK, well I have to take this step on my own.’”</p>
<p>Later on in the episode, Bravo cameras capture Erika walking around her new home, pointing out that <strong>her house with Tom was 16,000 square feet,</strong> four bedrooms and nine bathrooms while her current place is 2,015 square feet, three bedrooms and two bathrooms.</p>

		<p>“After finding a place to go to, I dropped Tom off at work and I went home and moved out. So I was out within the day,” she said in a confessional. “It’s frightening, you know, when you think about. It’s the uncertainty and instability of being, really, out of on your own. … Just getting up the courage to leave is a big deal. This was my home for over 21 years.”</p>
<p><em>Us Weekly</em> confirmed in December 2020 that <strong>Tom and Erika were being sued for allegedly embezzling settlement funds</strong> from the families of plane crash victims. <strong><strong>Jay Edelson</strong>, who filed the class action lawsuit against the spouses</strong>, alleged that Tom gave Erika’s company “10s of millions of dollars” over the years.</p>
<p>She has yet to explicitly address the lawsuits on the show but hinted that “something is coming” for her on Wednesday’s episode. During a different chat with Lisa, Erika added, “He left me no room, and that’s the only way I can say it right now. … We’re not playing games over here. And he’s not going to be playing games with me. … He’s got some real challenges ahead of him.”</p>
<p>In previews for the upcoming episodes, <strong>Erika seemingly says Tom is the “only one” who knows the truth about the legal woes</strong> and claims she was unaware of his alleged actions. Tom, meanwhile, revealed in a 2020 deposition that he has “no money” left. During a June court hearing, the former attorney, who has been stripped of his law license, <strong>told the judge that he objected to the conservatorship he was placed under</strong> after he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s earlier this year.</p>
<p><em>The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills</em> airs on Bravo Wednesdays at 8 p.m. ET. Scroll through for the biggest bombshells dropped by Erika on the series:</p>
									

				
					<p id="cookie-empty-placeholder">In order to view the gallery, please allow <a class="optanon-toggle-display" name="Manage Cookies">Manage Cookies</a></p>
				

				<strong>Listen to Getting Real with the Housewives, your one-stop destination for Housewives news and exclusive interviews</strong>
<strong></strong><strong><img width="130" height="47.72"  alt="Listen on Google Play Music"  data-src="/uploads/2021/06/24/erika-jayne-details-how-she-pre-planned-split-left-tom-without-telling-him-0.png"></strong><p>This story originally appeared on: <strong>US Magazine</strong> - Author:<strong>Sarah Hearon</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
                <dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Hearon]]></dc:creator>
            </channel>
</rss><!--Time: 0.055138826370239-->