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        <title><![CDATA[‘Bachelorette’ alum Rachel Lindsay gets ‘Ghosted’ on MTV]]></title>
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            <media:title type="html">‘Bachelorette’ alum Rachel Lindsay gets ‘Ghosted’ on MTV</media:title>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Bachelorette&#8221; Rachel Lindsay is ready for her close-up &#8212; on two different TV shows.</p><p>Lindsay, the first African-American star of ABC&#8217;s long-running franchise, <strong>has joined</strong> the &#8220;Extra&#8221; team as a full-time correspondent &#8212; and, with Travis Mills, returns to co-host &#8220;Ghosted: Love Gone Missing.&#8221; Season 2 premieres Wednesday at 9 p.m.</p><p>On the show, Lindsay and Mills help distraught people track down ex-friends and lovers who, without explanation, cut off all contact with them, a social phenomenon called &#8220;ghosting.&#8221;</p><p>&#8220;I felt like I can relate to that,&#8221; says Lindsay, 35. &#8220;I&#8217;ve been there and I know what it&#8217;s like to not have that closure, to be stuck in a spot where you&#8217;re wondering what happened. Was it me? How do I enter my next relationship?&#8217;</p><p>&#8220;Travis and I have these stories,&#8221; she says. &#8220;We can relate and we can help.&#8221;</p><p>Lindsay, who starred on Season 13 of &#8220;The Bachelorette&#8221; in 2017, says she was ghosted 11 years ago by a guy she dated on-and-off for about four years. When she tried to call him, he had changed his phone number &#8212; and completely vanished from sight.</p><p>&#8220;This was before Instagram and Twitter so there was no way of getting in touch with him,&#8221; she says. &#8220;There was no way to know what happened. Even mutual friends were like, &#8216;We don&#8217;t really know what&#8217;s up.&#8217; It wasn&#8217;t until two years later &#8212; and I never had a boyfriend in-between &#8212; that I ran into him and he told me the reason he left was because he didn&#8217;t know how to end it with me.</p><p>&#8220;I couldn&#8217;t even talk about it that much because it was so embarrassing for me,&#8221; she says. &#8220;I was ashamed. The more I started talking about it the more I realized, &#8216;Oh my gosh, this is actually a thing that&#8217;s happening to a lot of people. This is how relationships are being handled.&#8217;&#8221;</p><blockquote class="pullquote right"><p>&#8216;I&#8217;ve been there and I know what it&#8217;s like to not have that closure.&#8217;</p></blockquote><p>Lindsay says that she&#8217;s never ghosted anyone in the strict sense of the word.</p><p>“I know there are degrees of ghosting,&#8221; she says. &#8220;Maybe I went on a date with someone and I really didn’t respond to their messages afterward. Maybe they got the hint, but I never blocked anyone &#8230; I was just slow in my responses, so they understood what was happening.</p><p>&#8220;I hate to say that because I feel like somebody is going to come out the woodwork now and say, &#8216;Yes, actually you did.&#8217;&#8221;</p><p>Lindsay, who&#8217;s now married to Bryan Abasolo &#8212; he was a &#8220;Bachelorette&#8221; contestant when she hosted the series &#8212; was recently hired as a correspondent for &#8220;Extra&#8221; as the veteran newsmagazine enters its 27th season Sept. 8. She first joined the show, hosted by Billy Bush, as a special correspondent last year.</p><p>“I&#8217;ve had a chance to interview great people such as Spike Lee, Halle Berry, Samuel L. Jackson and Oprah Winfrey,&#8221; she says, &#8220;and to do very fun red carpets. &#8216;Extra&#8217; has really trusted me with a lot and at this point I&#8217;m more interested in telling stories &#8212; and now I have that platform.&#8221;</p>]]></content:encoded>
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